January 31, 2014

Finally Friday

PRANCER PIE

Mommy can't believe she has made it an entire week since her little man went OTRB.  We won't lie furriends, it hasn't been pretty.  Mommy is pretty much a snot factory.   This is how it's gonna be for her, one day at a time.  This weekend is his debut on the CB calendar, that brought about a whole new set of waterworks for her.  Thank you efurryone, for all the sweet words, thoughts, purrs, purrayers, donations, cards, emails, etc.  Each and every one makes us feel special.

Happy Friday furriends.  Purrs, ya'll.

Pee Ess - Rest assured that Precious and I are taking extra pains to keep Mom's hands and mind busy.  Bwahaha! - Princeton

40 comments:

Sweet Purrfections said...

We're really purring for your mommy during this difficult time. Tell her to take all the time she needs to heal. We truly believe tear help wash away the pain. We're here for you if you need us.

Georgia and Julie said...

We send more comforting purrs to your Mom.
Our Mom still finds it hard to look at pictures of Tillie and her eyes get leaky too.
We are glad you are looking after your Mom.
Purrs Georgia and Julie,
Treasure,JJ
and Angels Tiger and Tillie

Sparkle the Designer Cat said...

Purrs to your human. This has been a really rough week for her, I'm sure. We have been pretty sad here too.

Katie Isabella said...

Momma said she understands completely and I am still sending purrs. It's one of life's most exquisitely painful things to go through. xxoox

The Whiskeratti said...

This is a very hard time, we know. But just remember, there are many who care about you, if that helps.

Annie Bear said...

I was so sorry that this happened. You're so right about one day at a time although it can be so painful. Sometimes, it's one moment at a time. Missing them hurts. Allow yourself all the time you need. We're thinking of you.

Fuzzy Tales said...

Everyone processes grief differently, and in their own time. With Chum and Annie, I'd say it took me a good 18 months to get to the point where I was okay, though even now something still can trigger the grief. It's just that way--no one really 'gets over' losses. Someone on the CB made the comment, a couple of years ago, that we just become accustomed to the absence of the person/Being. She was right.

(((Hugs)))

Hannah and Lucy said...

We all react in different ways when we are grieving - just take one day at a time and you will reach the end of the dark tunnel and come out into daylight when you're ready.
Luv Hannah and Lucy xx xx

Punapippuri said...

Dude, we miss the guy too. We keep looking to the skies to see his tail waving, but nothing there yet, A few bright stars are there though.
We have been thinking of your Mom and hoping you and the tuxie terror are taking care of her. You, Princeton, in particular, need to make sure there are sufficient tissues NOT shredded so she can wipe up some of that snotty stuff.
Purrs dudes.

Flynn said...

Purrs and hugs from me and my mum.

ANGEL ABBY said...

Our own view now is grief is a life long process and it becomes woven into each of our personalities and lives. Each of us has different reactions and responses, none of them are wrong. Emotional woundings take a long long time to heal and can be easily pierced by triggers. I read that tears generated by grief are different than normal tears, they cleanse which is what the body needs. Prancer is missed by each one of us and we share your sorrow, and we hope that one day soon, your sadness will not be as hard to bear as it is right now.

xoxoxox

Selina said...

That is a GORGEOUS picture of Mr. Prancer. I know this has been such a hard week for you - Princeton et al, you be SURE to take care of your meowm this weekend & give her LOTS of comfort.

We're continuing to think of you all ...

Love
Selina & MomKatt Laura

Oui Oui said...

It's been a hard time, and you mom has been in our purrs and prayers.

Random Felines said...

there is no time limit on grief. we are sending you all purrs

Mollie said...

Our heart and love are with Mommy. Prancer Pie will always be a huge part of blogville xxxooxxxx

Mollie and Alfie

Kitties Blue said...

We have been pretty amazed that y'all have been able to keep posting through your grief. We think that is a great idea to keep your mom busy. We continue to purr and pray for you and look forward to seeing Prancer Pie on the CB calendar this weekend. Purrs and Paw pats, Lily Olivia, Giulietta, Fiona, Mauricio, Misty May, Astrid, Lisbeth and Calista Jo

Tom, Tama-Chan, Sei-Chan, Bibi-Chan, Gen-Chan, Vidock, Violette said...

We haven't even been able to process the fact that our buddy Prancer Pie is not around anymore, and so can imagine what it must be like for your Mom. Be good to her, The two of you!!!

And thanks for returning to blogging. We really appreciate that.

Purrs,
The Chans

Pasha said...

Our hearts are still very sore as well!!!! In a strange way we miss Prancer terribly!!!!
(((hugs))) to your Mommy and everyone in your household. We know how very painful it is!

Cheysuli and gemini said...

We looked ahead at the calendar yesterday and saw him and that made us very sad for you, but happy to see him. I am sure he is purring away over the bridge and keeping an eye on things. Purrs and headbumpies from us.

Brian said...

We just hate your pain more than you will ever know. Love and hugs from all of us.

da tabbies o trout towne said...

itz knot sum thin yur mom will get over any time soon precious & princeton....N its crappy two coz oh princess leevin at this time oh de yeer last yeer :(

let her cry all her wants...its good for her N we noe ewe both iz doin yur veree veree best ta help her thru thiz...

XXXXXXXOOOOOOOOXXXXXXXX

Susie and Sidebite said...

Why do we have that feeling that you didn't need to tell us your keeping her busy. Princeton , just can't see you staying out of trouble, Barharhar

The Mad Scots
Pess: hope you guys are ready for some snow, they are saying around two inches here Sunday, then more Monday.

Angel Ginger Jasper said...

I so know how your mum feels and I send my love to her. One day at a time is how it goes and is the best way. I saw the calendar and knew that it would be hard for you. Love and hugs x

William said...

Aw, your poor mommy. I know mine can still get weepy over Russell. All you can do is love on her.

The Cat From Hell said...

Mes is sending strengthening purrs for your Mommy. And me is sure Princeton, you can think if something to makes your Mommy laughs!
Kisses
Nellie

Meg & Quill said...

We are sending our love and hugs to all of you there. Mom knows how hard it is, but she insists it gets a little better each day. Much love to you friends!

Cathy Keisha said...

The waterworks started for TW as soon as she opened this blog. She recognized that sweet, sweet face. RIP, little man. {Hugs}

The Island Cats said...

We know how hard it must be for your mom. We're sending extra comforting purrs to her. And thank cod she has you guys to keep her occupied.

Sometimes, Cats Herd You said...

We know this is a hard time for you. You have to go through the grieving process at your own pace, and it's a painful journey. It does get better, we promise. And in the meantime, all of us in the blogosphere are here for you, sending purrs, headbutts, and loving thoughts your way.

Debra Taylor said...

I am so sad that Prancer Pie had to leave. I know he is happy where he is. But I also know the depth of pain you have been going through. Sending you lots of kitty and human love vibes.


Debby in Arizona
http://homelesscatcare.blogspot.com/

Marty the Manx said...

We still send purrs and luvs your way every single day. Mom knows what it is like to have a "little Man" size hole in your heart. You guys just keep being you so your mom knows she still has all your love at home and the house is still full of life.
Purrs and Whisker Kisses
Marty and Mom

Maxwell, Faraday and Allie said...

oh we don't doubt it for a minute. These things are so very difficult to get through - and it's sometimes one moment at a time. Purrs and hugs to you....

nylabluesmum said...

Yow Precious n Princeton yer Mum iz beein so brave...Mum sayz da ferst 2 weekz iz da hardest...it takez time fer a Hu'man to get used to life wifout a beeloved 4 legged.
Me nose ya will take care of yer Mum n help her get thru diz sad time.
We bin purrayin fer her still...
*paw patz* Nylablue n Sherriellen Mum xoxoxo

Clooney said...

We can only imagine the difficulty of this week for you and are holding you close in our hearts, thoughts and prayers.

Lone Star Cats said...

Take good care of your momma!

Jans Funny Farm said...

We're familiar withe the waterworks. It's just so hard to lose one of our dear furries. Sending comforting hugs, purrs and pawtaps for your mom.

Eileen said...

We is purring your mom, we understand how hard it is to say goodbye to a furbabie.

We is happy, you and Precious are trying to help mom through this time.

Sasha, Sami, & Saku

The Cat Guy said...

I was just looking at your sweet picture on the CB Calendar and thinking of you. My heart hurts with you, I join you in tears. so hard to have them go. crazy pain. - many purrs my friends.

Kjelle Bus said...

Sending (((purrs))) and huggies to your human <3

I watch the picture on Prancer Pie in the CB Calendar right now , since it stands besides our computer.

XOXO

Timmy Tomcat said...

We continue to send purrs of love and support. It takes a long time to get to the point where everywhere you look you do not get a pain of the heart as memories rush in.
Some day we shall all meet again where the pain of age and sickness is no more and we laugh of times past as we sit in the shade
Love
Timmy Dad and Family